Published on:

10th Feb 2021

After Dark 16: Accepting, Changing and Compromising In Relationships

In getting the love you want; how much are you willing to compromise?

In this episode, the queens discuss everything from salacious women to relationships that change over time. Relationships right now are different.  Between pandemic babies and you are not the one during this pandemic, relationships are changing some for better and others for worse.

Can men and women be friends if they are in relationships with others?

The queens discuss their feeling on males and females being friends.  Shannon is open to her significant other having female friends.  Lyvonne is okay if she likes the woman and Valencia is hands down no indeed.  What are your thoughts?

How would you handle your child’s relationship if something was going on you didn’t like? Yeah, we go there too!

If you want to join a conversation around friends, boundaries and more in love, this is your show! Join the conversation

Key Topics and Things Mentioned:

  • Controlling or Crazy In Love
  • Being Involved in Your Child's Relationships
  • Should You Compromise or Change
  • Pandemic Relationship Transitions and More!

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Define U Radio After Dark Conversations
Have you ever wondered what real people really talk about when the gloves are off? Do you think you are the only one who thinks like you do about the world today? Are you ready to hear adult conversations? In today’s world, the ignorant and biased people are loud. They don’t represent the “silent” majority’s views or how we really feel. On After Dark, I have conversations with friends of the show about life, love and more. Sometimes, we agree and are on the same page. Other times we disagree, but either way everyone’s opinion is respected and represented here.

Valencia is an author, speaker, and a business owner. Most of all, she is a wife, mother and a black woman maneuvering everything from foster parenting to dealing with racism to questioning systematic programming by the media. "Have conversations that mean something!”

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Valencia Griffin-Wallace

Valencia Griffin-Wallace is the founder of Define U, LLC, host of the Define U Radio podcast, best selling author of many titles and award winning author of Motherless Child, her story of growing up with an addict. She is on a mission to educate gen x women about true self empowerment, accountability and confidence. In her words, "Your past doesn't define you, it gives you definition and what you do with that is up to you."