Published on:

3rd Feb 2021

After Dark 15: Love, Relationships, and Expectations with The Queens

What is the difference between the people you commit to and people you don’t?

As you get older, love changes because we as people change. In this episode, the queens share there thoughts on love before and during the pandemic.  We discuss our love languages and how that has changed in the past year.

Should a relationship be 50/50 or 100/100? What is the difference? Shannon shares what has and will make her commit to a relationship.  Do you really know when you are in love and it is time to commit? Valencia discusses how she gave up talking to other people because she found her kind of crazy.  Lyvonne tells the us that knowing that she felt protected is what made her commit to her husband.

Yes, you can find love during the pandemic or you might even have it already. If you are ready to get some real love tips, this is your show!

Join the conversation to get ready to more love in your life.

Key Topics and Things Mentioned:

  • What makes a woman commit
  • Is keeping the “same” energy throughout a relationship important
  • What is really important to women today
  • Expectations of love and more!

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Define U Radio
Define U Radio After Dark Conversations
Have you ever wondered what real people really talk about when the gloves are off? Do you think you are the only one who thinks like you do about the world today? Are you ready to hear adult conversations? In today’s world, the ignorant and biased people are loud. They don’t represent the “silent” majority’s views or how we really feel. On After Dark, I have conversations with friends of the show about life, love and more. Sometimes, we agree and are on the same page. Other times we disagree, but either way everyone’s opinion is respected and represented here.

Valencia is an author, speaker, and a business owner. Most of all, she is a wife, mother and a black woman maneuvering everything from foster parenting to dealing with racism to questioning systematic programming by the media. "Have conversations that mean something!”

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Valencia Griffin-Wallace

Valencia Griffin-Wallace is the founder of Define U, LLC, host of the Define U Radio podcast, best selling author of many titles and award winning author of Motherless Child, her story of growing up with an addict. She is on a mission to educate gen x women about true self empowerment, accountability and confidence. In her words, "Your past doesn't define you, it gives you definition and what you do with that is up to you."